Think Of Me With Love
Fifteen guided experiences to deepen connection, closeness, and love.
A relationship is something you have always wanted…….
For as long as you remembered, you always wanted a relationship. A relationship where love is unquestionable and the goal is forever. It’s a relationship that adds so much to your life, where conversations are fulfilling, text messages are loving and support is ever giving.
You love having someone to call, someone to have brunch with, someone to plan the next month, or the next ten years.
How wonderful to be desired, to be missed everyday, and to have someone find you so attractive and see you as the only one in the world.
With the right partner by your side, isn’t life more achievable? Even problems can feel like an adventure when someone is holding your hand through them.
But as you have discovered, the relationships we see in films and books are few and far between.
In real life, relationships are hard. They often become a battleground of very different needs, expectations, and emotional wounds.
Most people have convinced themselves that a difficult relationship is the standard. Anything else is a myth.
Arguments, frustration and a lack of connection are the norm in most relationships.
Signs of a relationship left on autopilot
Your conversations are merely functional.
Your weekends are repetitive and dull.
Romance has taken a back seat.
You think an “okay” relationship is good enough.
You believe romance is only for the young and idealistic.
You prefer to hang out in big friend groups instead of just with your partner.
There is no more I love you texts or shared jokes.
Dates and surprises feel so unnecessary
Narratives like “happy wife, happy life” and “marriage is prison” are part of your conversation.
You wonder if your partner is still in love with you.
You wonder if you are still in love with your partner.
“A relationship should be one that gives you joy, support and peace. It should make you more, not less; happier not sad. Why else be in one? ”
When time and intention drift elsewhere, relationships lose its life. It doesn’t mean love is gone, but it cannot continue to be neglected.
What Happened To Your Relationships Goals?
Don’t you want an amazing relationship?
Don’t you want to be somebody’s can’t-do-without? Don’t you deserve to feel chosen, supported and loved?
And don’t you want to have a relationship that’s like in the movies? (Yes we know movies aren’t real)
Love is that one thing in life that is transcendental. This is an area in life where you should aim high.
Think Of Me With Love
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Fifteen Guided Experiences
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Built
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Deepen Connection
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Create Novelty
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Think Of Me With Love · Fifteen Guided Experiences · Built · Deepen Connection · Create Novelty ·
THINK OF ME WITH LOVE
Think Of Me With Love is a thoughtful weekly plan that brings two people closer and reawakens love and warmth.
It is a set of 15 guided experiences designed to deepen connection, create intimacy and nurture love. Lasting love is built and nurtured on feeling seen, heard, and genuinely valued and this is what the experiences help you achieve.
What It Is
15 experiences that are each meaningful activities that’s reachable yet a detour from usual relationship routines.
Each experience is designed to encourage shared purpose, see each other with fresh eyes and bring about reflection.
The experiences require some planning and preparation. They require discussion, commitment and an open heart from both sides.
Some experiences can take a few weeks long, and some complete in a few hours.
It gives you something to talk about, something to look forward to, and a special project that’s exclusively both of yours. This is where your relationship is undergoing “love training.”
What It Isn’t
It isn’t a quick fix or a checklist of tricks to reel in a partner.
Unlike other existing date ideas out there which are fun, spontaneous and current, Think Of Me With Love is designed and written to be a little more serious and purposeful in deepening connection. It’s not heavy but it’s not immediate dopamine and big laughs. The goal here is renewed intimacy and love, and that takes some fun effort.
Who Is It For?
Couples who are serious about improving and strengthening their relationship.
Mature couples. It’s made for those in their 30s all the way to their 90s. You just need the heart for it.
The activities are catered to more goal-oriented and intense personalities.
Who Is It Less Suitable For?
We would love for Think Of Me With Love to be tried by everyone, but our focus groups demonstrates that it resonates less with laidback and mild mannered personalities. By all means, try us out, but purchase with your eyes wide open.
Who Is It Not Suitable For?
Think Of Me With Love will unfortunately not help if you are married to the wrong person. If anything, it will only make more obvious the gap between you and your partner.
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Signs you may be married to the wrong person
You cannot resolve conflict without one person feeling diminished, silenced, or unsafe
Your core values (kindness, honesty, responsibility, growth) fundamentally clash
Attempts at repair are consistently met with contempt, indifference, or punishment
You feel lonelier inside the relationship than outside of it
You are required to shrink, numb, or abandon yourself to keep the peace
Alternatively, we may want to gently ask if we have made our partner feel any of the above ways.
Signs You Married Well:
There is basic goodwill, even when things are hard
Both partners are capable of reflection
There is a desire to understand, not just to win
The relationship feels worth tending to
HOW TO USE THE EXPERIENCES
Choose the experience that feels most comfortable to you. If an experience doesn’t feel right, skip it. We are all different and this is meant to serve you, not pressure you. Work your way up slowly.
While each experience comes with guidance, you are free to adapt it. Expand on it, soften it, or make it your own.
Some experiences can be repeated again and again in different forms, while others may be one-off moments. Pay attention to what resonates most with you and your partner, and allow yourselves to return to those experiences when you need them.
Go in with zero expectations and the best intentions. You and your partner are trying something new with the aim of strengthening your relationship, and that itself is powerful. Different experiences feel different for different people.
Arguments are a normal part of relationships, so don’t be discouraged or feel like a failure if a misunderstanding arises during an experience. Many couples argue during holidays, celebrations, or even moments meant to be joyful. Perfectly normal.
Discomfort can be information.
New experiences may surface emotions or triggers that weren’t obvious before, and that too, is part of growth. Discovery doesn’t mean something is wrong. Often, it means something important is being revealed.
HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU DESIRE
The strongest relationships are shaped by two people who choose to make each other a priority again and again.
Your happiness is hugely determined by your relationship.
Protect it. Grow it.
If having a loving, connected and strong relationship is important, Think Of Me With Love is a tool for life. It invites you to rediscover each other, and to create a relationship that feels alive, fulfilling and deeply loved.
Let Think Of Me With Love help you create your best relationship yet.
Think Of Me With Love is a digital product.
This pdf contains 55 pages with illustrations plus appendixes.
Purchase for RM9.90.
To purchase: Click the button below. We’ll send you a QR for payment. Once payment is made with receipt of proof sent, the Think Of Me With Love pdf will be sent to your email immediately.
Untuk sahabat-sahabat Melayu kita yang lebih selesa dengan Bahasa Melayu, anda boleh membeli versi Bahasa kita.
Harga RM9.90.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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Think Of Me With Love is suitable for anyone interested to strengthen their relationship and rekindle warmth and intimacy. Our experiences veer more serious so it may be less suitable for couples seeking thrills and fun pursuits or those who prefer lighter activities. The experiences are made for mature couples (30s and up) or anyone truly invested in improving their relationship.
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Yes, the experiences are more suited for serious, thoughtful and goal-oriented personalities. If you are fun loving, dopamine-seeking and one that gets bored easily, our experiences are less suitable for you. By all means, we would love for you to try, but do proceed with caution :)
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The experiences are activities designed to give both you and your partner something to do and plan for the week. Some of these experiences require planning and preparation and the completion can range from a day to a few weeks. Some can be done in a few hours in a day. There is nothing outlandish or dramatic about the experiences; they are mainly things available around us. The experiences are easily achievable with a little bit of effort, commitment and a positive attitude from both sides.
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The majority of the experiences do not require you to spend a lot of money at all. However each experience requires some low amount of spending that’s comparable to your daily expenditure.
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Results often take time, and both parties have to be committed to putting in the time in building the relationship. However, one night of feeling seen and understood can change the dynamic of a relationship dramatically. One afternoon of seeing your partner in a new attractive light brings back spark and appreciation that every relationship needs. While results vary , you should definitely be able to see improvements in your relationship.
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It is very helpful if you and your partner are aware of gender differences and the language and actions one should and should not do. For instance, if as a woman, you criticize your partner infront of others, that will leave him over time distant to you. And if you as a man take every complaint she makes as an attack to you, she will be exhausted and reluctant to connect. Educate yourself on the sensitive and crucial spots of a man and a woman and half the battle is won.
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It depends. If your relationship is so broken where both of you barely speak to each other, we advice you to get a therapist to help navigate communication. If you are married to the wrong person, this cannot help. If one partner is not cooperative, this will not work. But if your relationship has suffered as a result of unmet needs and both are willing to do the work, yes it can definitely help and improve things. If your relationship isn’t in a good place but both want to make it work, we suggest starting off with Experience #1 and Experience #15.
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Think Of Me With Love is a digital product. You will be sent a complete pdf download once you purchase.
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Tell Us About You
Hello, I’m Lin Dee :) and I’m a writer. I have been reading, learning and observing relationships for years. I don’t have any qualifications on this topic but I have spent a lot of time thinking, talking and dissecting it. Think Of Me With Love is my perspective on what works.
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What Made You Create This?
Relationships are hard. Besides new lovebirds, the majority of people seem either listless, resigned or tired about their relationships. Further, a lack of meaningful activities leaves one feeling unfulfilled and cools a connection. From my relationships, I discovered that a few specific things I did consistently made romantic interests gravitate towards me and develop long lasting connections that was hard to shake. They brought out a lot of love and permanence that surprised me.
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Did You Write This?
Every experience ( except Star Confessions) is written by me, not AI. The experiences are my original ideas that I am confident will strengthen connections. Of course I used ChatGPT to help me refine copy and grammar, but the blank space was filled by me. I wrote everything from scratch.
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What is the best relationship advice you would give?
Find the right person. Too many people are with the wrong person. Don’t waste your time trying to make it work with the wrong person.
And this leads to people always asking “How do I know if he/she is the right person?” This is too lengthy to answer here but the short answer is how you feel about yourself. If you have never processed and properly healed past hurts and trauma, it is that version of you that attracted your partner.
Want to chat with me? :)
Drop me an email at yoohooplonk@gmail.com